Calmer mind, safer choices

Understanding our emotions

We all have different ways of coping with difficult situations or difficult times in our life. Some people use healthy ways of coping, like exercise or talking to someone they trust. Others may have strategies to help feel calmer in the moment.

However, for may of us, the strategies we use can leave us feeling worse. We may stop doing things we enjoy, turn to alcohol or other drugs, disconnect from family and friends or find ourselves using violence.

At times, we all feel emotions like anger, frustration, or shame. What is important is how we respond to these emotions. This is because feeling a strong emotion, and how we respond to it, are different things.

To help learn more about our emotions, and how we can better manage them in times of stress, the video below that covers:

  • why we feel strong emotions
  • strategies to help manage our emotions
  • where we can gain further support.

 

Further support

Learning to manage our emotions in healthier ways can be difficult to do on our own. However, finding support from the right people can make a big difference.

If you feel you would like further support, the services listed below may be able to help. You can access these services by contacting them directly (no referral is needed).

Looking to support a friend or family member? Many of the services listed on this page can help family and friends find ways to support someone close to them.

Lifeline

Lifeline

Phone : 13 11 14
Text : 0477 131 114
Online chat: www.lifeline.org.au
Call 000 if life is in immediate danger.

Relationships Australia

Relationships Australia

Phone: 1300 364 277
Gambling help, domestic and family violence, relationship counselling.
Interpreter service available.

Men’s referral service

Men’s referral service

Phone: 1300 766 491
A 24/7 phone counselling, information and referral service for men who use violence and abuse to change their behaviour.

Mensline

Mensline

Phone: 1800 600 636
Free helpline for men using abuse, or experiencing abuse, in their intimate partner, ex-partner or family relationships.
Interpreter service available.

Headspace

Headspace

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Free, confidential support either online, phone or in-person for young people aged 12-25.

13 YARN (13 92 76)

13 YARN (13 92 76)

Free and confidential service available 24/7, 7 days a week. 13 YARN is run by Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people.

General Practitioner

Your GP is another source of support. You may also be eligible for appointments with a psychologist via a mental health care plan.
You may also be able to reach out to your school, TAFE or university counselling services.

National Alcohol &
Other Drug Hotline

Phone: 1800 250 015
Free, confidential 24/7 service for anyone struggling with their use of alcohol and/or other substances.

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