The recognition of dying is always complex. Uncertainty is an ever-present part of dying, and there are occasions when a person lives longer or dies sooner than expected. It is normal to be afraid of what will happen during the dying process, especially if you have never seen anyone die.
Most people assume death will come suddenly, but the reality is that dying often happens over time. As we are all individuals, our experience of dying will be unique to us too. There are, however, changes that are commonly experienced. Being aware of some of these changes and knowing what to expect and how to help, may help to lessen some of the fear and anxiety as death approaches.
Palliative Care Australia
Palliative Care Australia has an information sheet on the changes you may notice and what you can do to help.
PallAssist
PallAssist has an information sheet which outlines how you can support someone through this phase.
With the end in mind: How to live and die well
Dr Kathryn Mannix, Doctor and Author of the book ‘With the End in Mind: How to Live and Die Well’ has developed a great (and brief) video called Dying for Beginners with Dr Kathryn Mannix. Through animation it provides a simple explanation of what to expect.
