As we move closer to death, the role of spiritual beliefs, rituals, and practices can bring comfort to both those dying and those supporting them. Knowing what matters most to both the patient and their supporters can help those facing death navigate this phase of life. It may help to consider the following questions as you or your loved one move closer to death:
What spiritual beliefs and practices would you like to draw on now? What actions, prayers, words, or music provide you spiritual comfort?
If you are a member of a spiritual community, how can they support you now?
How would you like your healthcare team to consider your spiritual needs, beliefs, and practices in your care?
If your religious or cultural tradition has certain prescribed rituals that must be followed after death, what does the healthcare team need to know in order to support these rituals?
What feels most important to you now?
Rituals and support when death is near
An article from the Canadian Virtual Hospice describes simple acts that can bring comfort to the person dying, and those supporting them. They also suggest that if you belong to a spiritual tradition, you may find rituals in that tradition that highlight the spiritual significance of your experience.
When death is near you may also wish to connect with spiritual care supports. Metro North Health provides free spiritual support and multi-faith services, available to everyone including those with no identified faith, spiritual or religious practices.
Spiritual support services are provided by volunteers and can provide emotional support, spiritual or religious guidance, a listening ear, reflection and compassion, support to seek meaning and purpose and support if you are seeking forgiveness, reconciliation, and closure. They also offer grief and bereavement support.
In our hospital and health facilities across Metro North we also offer spaces for spiritual practice, including private prayer and reflection. For more information visit Metro North Health Spiritual Support Services.